Why You Should Consider a First Look at Your Wedding
The moment a couple sees each other dressed in their wedding attire for the first time is undeniably one of the most emotional and memorable parts of any wedding day. Traditionally, this magical moment occurs at the altar, witnessed by all the guests. However, more and more couples are choosing to break with tradition by opting for a “first look.” A private moment before the ceremony where they see each other for the first time in a more intimate setting. If you’re planning your wedding and are not sure about incorporating a first look, here are some compelling reasons why it might be a perfect addition to your day.
1. Alleviate Nerves and Enjoy the Moment Fully
Wedding jitters are real, and the anticipation of walking down the aisle can be overwhelming for many. Having a first look provides an opportunity to dispel some of those nerves. Seeing each other before the ceremony can help calm your nerves. Sharing this special moment privately with your partner rather than in front of all your guests. It allows you to connect, embrace, and express your emotions freely. And sets a relaxed tone for the rest of the day.
2. More Time for Authentic Photos
Photographers often advocate for a first look because it allows them to capture the genuine, unguarded reactions of the couple seeing each other for the first time on their wedding day. These photos often become some of the most cherished images from the wedding. Furthermore, it frees up time after the ceremony for additional photos with family and friends, or simply to join your cocktail hour.
3. Extend Your Wedding Day
Typically, the wedding day schedule is tight. A first look effectively extends your celebration by creating more time to spend together. This quiet, uninterrupted time before the ceremony can be a welcome pause during an otherwise bustling day. It allows you to savor the moment of being together on your wedding day for a bit longer.
4. Enhance Intimacy and Privacy
A wedding day is intimate and personal, yet it’s often shared with a large group of people. A first look is a moment shared just between the couple (and perhaps a photographer from a respectful distance). This can create a space for more personal interaction and tender exchanges that might not be as comfortable with hundreds of eyes on you.
5. Flexibility in Timing and Logistics
Having a first look can ease the logistical flow of the day. For example, winter weddings often face early sunsets. A first look can ensure that couple portraits are captured in natural light. Additionally, it allows the couple to attend parts of their cocktail hour. It maximizes time with guests and enjoying the full scope of the festivities they’ve planned.
6. Set a Relaxed Tone for the Ceremony
Couples who have had a first look often report feeling more relaxed and present during their ceremony. Having shared those first jitters privately, they can focus on the meanings of their vows and the joy of the ceremony. Instead of focusing on the emotional impact of seeing each other for the first time.
7. Create a Special Tradition
Though not traditional in the conventional sense, a first look has the potential to become a meaningful part of your wedding. It’s a modern tradition that you can personalize. Whether it includes exchanging gifts, reading private vows, or simply spending a few moments together in silence.
A first look isn’t for everyone, and traditionalists might prefer the suspense and impact of meeting at the altar. However, if the benefits listed above resonate with you, this modern twist on wedding day timelines might be perfect for your celebration. Remember, your wedding day is about your preferences and making memories that will last a lifetime. Whether you choose a first look or a traditional aisle reveal, ensure it reflects your relationship and the day you envision.
Ultimately, the decision of whether to have a first look is deeply personal and should be made based on what feels right for you and your partner. If you choose to incorporate this element, it could enrich your wedding experience in unexpected and beautiful ways.
Are you looking to chat with a photographer about your big day? We would love to connect with you and see if a first look is the right fit for you.
